Like a Dream: Johnny & Emma's Destination Wedding in Italy

Three days of food, fun and family on the outskirts of Rome!

It’s easy to get swept up in photographs of a really beautiful destination wedding, but looking at Johnny and Emma's real wedding at Borgo di Tragliata in Italy, captured by Chris Copeland Photography, I find myself wishing that I could go back in time and wrangle myself an invite! Johnny and Emma’s big day was actually three big days of merrymaking, with a wedding in the middle! This celebration was all about kicking back with friends and family in the stunning Italian countryside - just wait until you see where these guys had their reception dinner...

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata by Chris Copeland Photography
This gorgeous pair have been together for quite a while, having been pals in school from the age of 15. Emma tells us, "We would chat for hours every night on the phone until, eventually, Johnny plucked up the courage to ask me to go to the cinema (to see Final Destination 3, if I recall!) and the rest is history.”
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

It was only when they started dating, that Johnny and Emma realised they had actually met a lot earlier! “It turned out that mine and Johnny’s mums had both worked together when they were each pregnant with us, and so they had known each other far longer than we had! Johnny likes to say he started making moves in the womb!"

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
When it came time to propose, Johnny decided on a trip to Lake Bled in Slovenia, a place that has to be Googled to be believed! "I couldn’t understand why Johnny was constantly checking the weather forecast,” Emma remembers, “until on our last day, the rain finally stopped and he made us get up at 9am to rent a boat and row across to the island in the middle of the lake. He got down on one knee on the rowing boat in the middle of the lake and popped the question. To be honest, I was just relieved that he didn’t tip us both over!"
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
We are crushing hard on this Suzanne Neville gown, which Emma says was pretty much the opposite of what she initially wanted! "I was looking for something sleek and fitted and a little bit boho. What I actually ended up with was a corseted princess dress but I saw my dress and just fell in love straight away!" Sometimes the heart just takes the reins! 
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Emma describes their wedding as “super relaxed. As no-one needed to leave the venue for the three days, it felt like we had just taken over an Italian village for a weekend and everyone threw themselves into the Italian way of life – eating, swimming, walking the grounds and wine tasting. Even on the morning of the wedding, most people were down by the pool or chilling in hammocks.” Eh, yes please!
Italian destination wedding Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

The venue for Johnny and Emma's incredible weekend was Borgo di Tragliata, a venue just 30 minutes from Rome, which the couple spotted at a wedding fair in Belfast. "It was everything we were looking for,” Emma remembers. “It was a short journey from the airport and everything was on site, including a church, enough accommodation for up to 150 people, a bar, a couple of swimming pools and a number of different reception venues. It also helped that it looked like something from a Woody Allen movie!”

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

The deal was sealed when the couple went to view the venue. “We were just blown away by the scenery, food and wine. After eating and drinking our bodyweight in pasta and Italian wine, it was an easy decision from there!"

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

Like many couples, Johnny and Emma were unenthused by the idea of taking hundreds of wedding portraits - let’s face it, it’s not the most natural thing in the world! "We didn’t want to spend our day getting the traditional posed photos,” she says. “We wanted unobtrusive and natural photos that captured the spirit of the day. Chris Copeland and (videographers) Forever Social were beyond amazing. They were such fun to be around that the portrait session ended up being one of our favourite parts of the day!”

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

This pair make a pretty good case for having a destination wedding! "We loved it because instead of one day where we were rushing around trying to speak to everyone, we had three days of relaxing with everyone we loved. It just felt like we were on an amazing holiday with all of the people we love most in the world.” That’s the dream right there!

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

Johnny, Emma and their guests ended up partying until 6am for two nights on the trot, so ater all that excitement, they needed another week in Italy to recover! "We spent three nights in Capri and four nights in Positano on the Amalfi coast, both of which were magical. Our friends were staying in nearby Sorrento, so we were even able to continue the party by hiring a boat around Capri one day.” Swoon!

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Their official honeymoon is yet to come - an epic jaunt to South Africa, taking in Cape Town, the Winelands, the Garden Route, and a three-night safari, before they head to Mauritius for five nights. “We found it great splitting it up this way, as it meant we still had something to look forward to once the wedding was over, making the post-wedding blues slightly more manageable!"
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata by Chris Copeland Photography
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

What an amazing spread! It makes sense that food was one of the couple's biggest priorities from the get-go. "Whilst it’s pretty hard to go wrong with Italian food, The Borgo is Agriturismo-certified, meaning that everything you drink and eat on site has been produced either on site or within a radius of 10km and, as a result, the food was pretty incredible," Emma says.

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata by Chris Copeland Photography
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata by Chris Copeland Photography
Emma’s advice on wedding planning is something that all brides need to hear. "Put down the Pinterest boards!” she says. “I spent so long obsessing over the fact that I didn’t have enough details and that as a result, our wedding wouldn’t be Pinterest-worthy. While Pinterest is a great source for ideas, I think as brides we get so caught up in the Pinterest vision of what a wedding should be like, that we forget about what really matters and that is having the time of your lives with the people you love the most."
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata
Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

"It’s important that your wedding reflects you as a couple," she adds, "but, realistically, no-one is going to care if you don’t have the most creative wedding favours! What they are going to remember is good food and wine and having a great time!" Here, here!

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

Although this wedding kicked off the moment the wedding party stepped off the plane, the day itself still felt special. “It was like a dream and we both just couldn’t stop grinning from ear to ear,” Emma says. “We had possibly the best party of our lives. We had an eight-piece Italian band for the after-dinner dancing and they had everyone on the dance floor until 6am that morning. We even had some locals turn up at one point – the Italians definitely know how to throw a party!"

Italian destination wedding in Borgo di Tragliata

Is anyone else struggling with a serious case of wanderlust right now? Thanks so much to Chris Copeland Photography for sharing his gorgeous photographs with us and, of course, to Johnny and Emma for giving us a peek inside their Italian adventure!

The Wedding Details 

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